anyone want to help me fix this?
Best thing I can think of right now is reset the finder and mission control.
Just go to you home folder, then library then preferences, then in this folder search for com.apple.finder.plist and com.apple.spaces.com
Drag both of these to the desktop to make a copy, and make sure both of them are deleted from the preferences folder, then log out and back in.
It will recreate those files again ad reset both mission control an the finder.
See if the problem crops up again and if it does I have another idea