Karma :DDDDD

[nickspohn]

I had typed the whole story but I'm not going to share it.


Basically, this girl that loved me, and i loved her, yet we never dated were really close. Her Mom died 2 years ago from Cancer, and I was always there for her. She has many many friends, but always turned to her best friend (a girl) and me. I helped her get through that stage in her life. (She is an EXTREMELY sensitive girl). She always said without me she wouldn't be living because she would of gave up.

Fast forward a year.

She had to change schools because her parents were already divorced and had to move in with her dad. She met this guy, and is still dating him for a little over a year now. We were always good friends still. I helped her if she needed my help, which she always did. I've always been the person who knew what to do and get the situation fixed.

2 weeks ago.
Her boy friends brother was on her phone and texted me. I knew the girl so well I knew it wasn't her. This kid was saying stupid ****, and I never said "you aren't her". I just played along. She then tells me it wasn't her. And he said some stuff like "I could kick your ass" which I just laughed. Never said sorry, and I'm all like, wow what's with that. She gets offended randomly, and we basically fought over texts for a week. She made up stuff, and i always said things she did that were bad. She said a lot of mean things to me, and one thing about my Father that got to me. She always said "you always try to point out my faults" "or tell me what to do". Which to be honest, anytime she's asked me for help, i've always helped, and she would listen and it would work. The minute she said the thing about my father, i was like **** you. We had fought before and stuff, and she would always come back to me, but she's like i've had it. I didn't really care because I did so much in this friendship and she goes and does that. She even called Sprint and had them block my number.

Today.

I go on her myspace, and she was in an accident, and her car is totaled. I looked at her comments, and realized she was okay, i seriously LOL'ED. The bitch got what she deserves.


Oh and btw, I've been over her forever. Just thought I'd like to share this.

[PlaceofDis]

that is mean spirited. even if she is okay. oh and petty.

[nickspohn]

If you knew what she said about my father, you'd feel the same way. We've fought like 7 times, but she NEVER went that low. It's just as bad as saying something about her dead mother.

[floyde]

There's no such thing as karma dude. Random stuff happens. Your eager brain makes the connection. The universe remains indifferent...

[nickspohn]

Eh, but either way it's going to be a wake up call to her about me.

I give her a few days before she cracks and tries talking to me.

I know this sounds harsh, but after dealing with this for over 2 years, it's ridonkulas.

[rdowns]

Oh and btw, I've been over her forever. Just thought I'd like to share this.


Yeah, sure you are.

[PlaceofDis]

If you knew what she said about my father, you'd feel the same way. We've fought like 7 times, but she NEVER went that low. It's just as bad as saying something about her dead mother.

people say and do mean things all the time. so? that in no way should justify you being 'happy' over her pain/loss or negative things that happen to her. you don't want to like her as a person. cool. fine. move on and don't gloat over the situation. like i said. petty.

Eh, but either way it's going to be a wake up call to her about me.

I give her a few days before she cracks and tries talking to me.

I know this sounds harsh, but after dealing with this for over 2 years, it's ridonkulas.

you chose to be her friend. you chose to be there for her. you didn't have to if it wasn't worth it to you.

there is a difference between moving away from a bad friendship/relationship and being smug over other's misfortunes.

[nickspohn]

Yeah, sure you are.

I haven't hung out with her in months, she has a boyfriend, i blocked her from my myspace, i have no desire to talk to her. Etc.

[rdowns]

I haven't hung out with her in months, she has a boyfriend, i blocked her from my myspace, i have no desire to talk to her. Etc.


Yet you felt the need to come here and tell your petty story. Grow up.

[nickspohn]

Yet you felt the need to come here and tell your petty story. Grow up.

I did. You're right.

[kwood]

Oh to be in high school again... wait a minute... not so much.

[nickspohn]

I love high school. I miss it already and I'm half way through my Senior year.

[Jaffa Cake]

Oh and btw, I've been over her forever.Your thread about your falling out with her would suggest otherwise.

[nickspohn]

Your thread about your falling out with her would suggest otherwise.

Okay, I have a passed with her that was more than friendship. Big deal?

I couldn't be more happier right now. The comment about my father and the fact that she thinks she doesn't need me is what desired me to make this thread... on the internet...

[Santa Rosa]

I have to agree with you there nickspohn about karma.

I do believe there is definitely something happening that makes everything in the universe equal at the end of it all.

[nickspohn]

I have to agree with you there nickspohn about karma.

I do believe there is definitely something happening that makes everything in the universe equal at the end of it all.

:) I'm sayin...

[floyde]

I have to agree with you there nickspohn about karma.

I do believe there is definitely something happening that makes everything in the universe equal at the end of it all.

Why would the universe care about what happens to tiny specks of dust within it? I personally think that karma is just another of humanity's delusions of grandeur. Although I would like to hear evidence about karma if you've got any. ;)

[kwood]

on the internet...

Where you can say whatever you want, about whoever you want without having to actually confront the person about it. Nothing like talking about a person without having to deal with them face to face.

Seriously though, the fact that you made this thread tells everyone that you really aren't over her not matter how much you say you are. I don't expect you to realize this until you are older and wiser, but one day you will look back on your high school years and realize how petty and immature you really were.

We have all been there. Everyone I have talked to says the same (including me); High school was fun, but boy was I immature.

[nickspohn]

Oh I already know I'll look back and say "why did i do that?"


But you know, life just wouldn't be as fun. :)


I have 0 feelings for this girl. Only thing i miss is the fact that this person wouldn't be living if it wasn't for me. But other than that, ehhh.

[Primejimbo]

Yes she might have said bad stuff, but to laugh at someones pain isn't right. If you do believe in karma, laughing at her will come back to you.

[nickspohn]

Yes she might have said bad stuff, but to laugh at someones pain isn't right. If you do believe in karma, laughing at her will come back to you.

She didn't suffer. The car did. If she got hurt it would be different.

[Primejimbo]

She didn't suffer. The car did. If she got hurt it would be different.

She my not be hurt, but she did suffer. She lost her way of going to work, getting around, putting out money for a replacement car.. so yes she is hurting.

[nickspohn]

She my not be hurt, but she did suffer. She lost her way of going to work, getting around, putting out money for a replacement car.. so yes she is hurting.

Good.

And btw, that really is completely different. Life can't be replaced. Money and cars can.


Like i said, what she said can't be undone. It's just words, but for someone to even say that to someone after what I've done for her. Unacceptable.

[Primejimbo]

Good.

And btw, that really is completely different. Life can't be replaced. Money and cars can.


Like i said, what she said can't be undone. It's just words, but for someone to even say that to someone after what I've done for her. Unacceptable.

but still laughing at someones pain is wrong and very childish. 2 wrongs don't make a right

(2 wrights makes a plane)

[nickspohn]

but still laughing at someones pain is wrong and very childish. 2 wrongs don't make a right

(2 wrights makes a plane)

Correct, but it brings me satisfaction that she is getting this after what she said to me. Yeah, that goes with the wrong doesn't make a right, but meh.

[apsterling]

2 wrongs don't make a right
(2 wrights makes a plane)
And 3 rights make a left!

I have to say, I'd have kept it to myself, OP, you post that here and you're asking for it.

To be honest I'd have thought the same were it to happen to a specific someone, though. :rolleyes: