View Full Version : New house + stress = Need advise
toolbox
Mar 1, 2009, 06:23 PM
Hi all i just about my first home, i am 21. Comes with 3 bedrooms, 1 bathroom, toilet etc. But i need to get this off my chest
But i am so nervous about being here, i also suffer from anxiety problems so it's even worse. Even though the house is 218 meters from my parents i still feel stressed.
So how did you first home buyers go? How did you go when you first moved out of home?
skunk
Mar 1, 2009, 06:36 PM
Put up some pictures or other stuff you like to look at, and ask some friends around. Make it yours. Enjoy. :)
iJohnHenry
Mar 1, 2009, 06:39 PM
Hi all i just about my first home
Huh??? Are you in, or not??
I also suffer from anxiety problems so it's even worse.
Get a script for an SSRI, and chill.
Even though the house is 218 meters from my parents i still feel stressed.
Stop with the street-walking, already.
So how did you first home buyers go? How did you go when you first moved out of home?
I moved in with a girl, so it "went" well.
garybUK
Mar 1, 2009, 06:55 PM
What does the number of bedrooms have to do with it? :confused:
Anyway it takes some getting used to, just take time to settle in and get into a new routine.
eldy
Mar 1, 2009, 06:57 PM
Why the hell would you live so close to your parents? They sick?
iJohnHenry
Mar 1, 2009, 07:06 PM
He's 21, and away for the first time.
Now buying a house at that tender age, that's sick!!
eldy
Mar 1, 2009, 07:20 PM
Hey TS, did you go to college?
toolbox
Mar 1, 2009, 07:25 PM
Why the hell would you live so close to your parents? They sick?
Um no there not, i am close because if i need to go somewhere, i can be driven. I can't drive and there is no public transport here either.
skunk
Mar 1, 2009, 07:32 PM
Um no there not, i am close because if i need to go somewhere, i can be driven. I can't drive and there is no public transport here either.It seems odd that you wouldn't get a house near to public transport if you can't drive. How do you do your food shopping?
detz
Mar 1, 2009, 07:33 PM
Um no there not, i am close because if i need to go somewhere, i can be driven. I can't drive and there is no public transport here either.
Are you disabled? If so then I apologize for this: How are you 21 and able to purchase a house but not drive? That's a lot of stress you're putting on your parents.
toolbox
Mar 1, 2009, 07:36 PM
It seems odd that you wouldn't get a house near to public transport if you can't drive. How do you do your food shopping?
I just go with my parents on saturdays
Are you disabled? If so then I apologize for this: How are you 21 and able to purchase a house but not drive? That's a lot of stress you're putting on your parents.
The only time i go out is to work and home, my mum works just picks me up and drops me home again. I don't often go out during the day on the weekends. I am going blind too :(
skunk
Mar 1, 2009, 07:40 PM
I am going blind too :(That must be very frightening. I'd get some good smells going around the place, fresh bread, coffee, flowers, that always makes it feel like home.
toolbox
Mar 1, 2009, 07:49 PM
That must be very frightening. I'd get some good smells going around the place, fresh bread, coffee, flowers, that always makes it feel like home.
It is very scary, that is why i am close to my parents, just in case i trip over or hurt my self there close by. with this vision problem i noticed some times my balance is a little off and i am getting my lounge chairs today, so i will hopefully have my tele connected which might calm me down a tad. I have pills to take from the doc when i get worried - which i think i will have one!
eldy
Mar 1, 2009, 07:52 PM
You should try to get laid in your new pad. Have parties, do whatever you want for fun, etc. Seems like your time "away" will be short. You should enjoy it while you can.
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