Contents Table in InDesign

Hi All,

I am creating a auto contents table in indesign, I have got it so it gives me the list I want, the problem is styling it, the problem I am having is I can't get the titles in the contents to change there style automatically, at the moment they are the same style that are in the magazine, so my contents is all in a large font size which Isn't good.

Any ideas?

I created a paragraph style and assigned that to the text boxes which have the headers in I want, I added this in the TOC and it shows, but it doesn't show it with the style I set in the para styles box for it and just uses what it is in the headers in the document...