Gf dented my new macbook pro...

[Undispu7ed]

So just 30 mins ago, my gf was snooping through my phone and found a text she didn't like. She threw my iPhone into my brand new MacBook pro and put a dent on it. I just stared at my MacBook, in disbelief and didn't even say a word to her. She left and didn't even say sorry. I posted up a facebook status about how angry I was and what happened, she commented on it and said she's definitely gonna key my car again..LOL wtf?

Prior to this: She's...

- Keyed up my car for hanging out with a girl. It wasn't hanging out, the girl was helping me pick out something for my gf's bfday and she still didn't care

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Been with her for 5 years but I'm about ready to drop her ass! What would you guys do in this case?

[iBookG4user]

I would definitely dump her if she treats you that badly. She has no regard for your property and for you it sounds like, she's not worth your time.

[Unspoken Demise]

There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.

[phineas]

So just 30 mins ago, my gf was snooping through my phone and found a text she didn't like. She threw my iPhone into my brand new MacBook pro and put a dent on it. I just stared at my MacBook, in disbelief and didn't even say a word to her. She left and didn't even say sorry. I posted up a facebook status about how angry I was and what happened, she commented on it and said she's definitely gonna key my car again..LOL wtf?

Prior to this: She's...

- Keyed up my car for hanging out with a girl. It wasn't hanging out, the girl was helping me pick out something for my gf's bfday and she still didn't care

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Been with her for 5 years but I'm about ready to drop her ass! What would you guys do in this case?

Dude

Love is blind, but in your case, either the sex is awesome or you really love her, but for her to show violence like she's done, I'd drop her NOW.

Keyed your car, I would have reported her to the Police and filed criminal charges against her.

Just drop her, or you could post her picture and email and myspace page here and we could all say hello, how about her cell number also.

:rolleyes:

ROFLMAO

Dump the broad, or what ever you call that whacko

[heehee]

An eye for an eye. :p

[jessica.]

Leave her. She sounds crazy and if you marry her and stick with her forever then just wait until she hits middle age.

[NoSmokingBandit]

It sounds to me like you care more about your macbook than your relationship anyway, so why bother trying to work it out?

It also sounds like she is being a bitch, so i would get rid of her anyway. It sounds like neither of you really care about each other very much.

[Drumjim85]

get a restraining order.

[arkitect]

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Wow.
Just because you didn't want to have sex? :confused:
;)

Anyway. She sounds like bad news.

[leomac08]

There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.

yeah, she must have been one of those old 4GB iphone's that were discharge very quick, from the first generation iphone; time to get a new iphone 3G S or a used one..but not from EBAY or CRAIGSLIST!!.:D

[quagmire]

Dump her. I would have dumped her after keying my car and send her to jail........

[nrivas]

What is she doing out of the kitchen anyways?

[Menge]

Jeeesus, man! I'd have dropped her LONG ago O_o

[ucfgrad93]

Given your history with her, I would dump her.

[Consultant]

Sounds like a psycho.

Perhaps look into a restraining order.

Small claims for damages. Keep the messages in which she said she would damage your property, etc.

[Unspoken Demise]

Then again, I dont think the Apple store would take her in for a refurb, seeing as after I would be done with her, there would be lots of physical damage to the unit.

Im kidding, Domestic Abuse is not funny.

[melissa23]

First thing to do is talk to her! Tell her what you're telling us.

Does she know that those other incidents were unacceptable? Cos, really, they were- people in healthy relationships don't act like that!

I heard a quote once, which springs to mind- 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them.' I had an ex-boyfriend who hit me and told me I deserved it. I didn't, but that was all I knew as he was my first boyfriend. He wasn't sorry- that was who he was, and he showed me that in his actions.

Sidenote: I think after 5 years you should know her well enough be able to pick your gfs present on your own, but that's another matter.

Incidentally- what was in the text?

[AAPLaday]

Jeez so number 1 she keys your car, number 2 she throws your iPhone and number 3 she throws it at your macbook pro!!!! Id dump her and tell her its cause she gained weight lol :p

[ethical]

She's clearly very selfish and doesn't care for your opinion or property! Drop her like a hot potato!

[jessica.]

It sounds to me like you care more about your macbook than your relationship anyway, so why bother trying to work it out?

It also sounds like she is being a bitch, so i would get rid of her anyway. It sounds like neither of you really care about each other very much.

Actually above all, this is sage advice and a good observation. You two obviously outgrew each other, you're both fairly immature, and you both need to move on.

[Undispu7ed]

First thing to do is talk to her! Tell her what you're telling us.

Does she know that those other incidents were unacceptable? Cos, really, they were- people in healthy relationships don't act like that!

I heard a quote once, which springs to mind- 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them.' I had an ex-boyfriend who hit me and told me I deserved it. I didn't, but that was all I knew as he was my first boyfriend. He wasn't sorry- that was who he was, and he showed me that in his actions.

Sidenote: I think after 5 years you should know her well enough be able to pick your gfs present on your own, but that's another matter.

Incidentally- what was in the text?

It was a year into dating when the girl who went shopping with me, along with ANOTHER guy. Oh and it was her good friend too.

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)

[Unspoken Demise]

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)
By 'tired out' did you mean like "Hoooboy! She tired me out last night."
or
"Im sick and tired of Asians?"

[barr08]

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)

HA

edit: hahahaha

[daneoni]

The day a girl keys my car for something i didn't do is the day she gets deleted from my life. She sounds not only insecure but immature to boot.

[jessica.]

The day a girl keys my car for something i didn't do is the day she gets deleted from my life. She sounds not only insecure but immature to boot.

The day a girl keys your car for any reason is the day you need to delete her. Girls have no reason to be that crazy, nor do guys for that matter.

[barr08]

The day a girl keys your car for any reason is the day you need to delete her. Girls have no reason to be that crazy, nor do guys for that matter.

Agree. Keying a guy's car is about the worst thing you can do to him. It's the male equivalent of the C-word, but way worse.

[yg17]

Why is this even a question? Leave the crazy bitch.

[ethical]

Why is this even a question? Leave the crazy bitch.

I'd like the 3 people who voted "try and work it out" to share their reasoning.

[zenoran]

I assume she's an adult and responsible for her actions?

dump her and take her to small claims to get your property replaced :)

[redAPPLE]

I'd like the 3 people who voted "try and work it out" to share their reasoning.

those 3 were probably grrls... there is no reasoning... *runsandducks* ;)

[michael.lauden]

Just treat people the way you want to be treated. everyone makes mistakes.

just make sure you tell her if there's another one, then 'thats is it'

[SpookTheHamster]

I'd like the 3 people who voted "try and work it out" to share their reasoning.

It's probably his girlfriend signing up new accounts and voting.

[chrmjenkins]

Dump her. Physical abuse is where any relationship stops.

It was a year into dating when the girl who went shopping with me, along with ANOTHER guy. Oh and it was her good friend too.

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)

Nevermind, she probably knows a ninja. Good luck getting out of this one.

[electroshock]

I've got a bad feeling that in about 10 years from now that unless this issue is quickly corrected (with a very firm and guilt-free "so long, honey"), we'll be reading a newspaper headline:

Crazed wife burns down house to spite husband

...along with a quote from the police spokesperson: "Oh yeah, we've been to that address quite a few times in the past for all sorts of stuff. Address is on our dispatcher computer system's 'speed dial' feature. Well, since that address no longer exists, guess we can take it off the speed dial now."

Do not let this proceed any further to marriage, or the revenge she exacts during a subsequent divorce will be messy, expensive, and especially extra-painful. :)

[Undispu7ed]

I already dropped her before I put up the thread, I just wanted to see some opinions and what not :p

[jessica.]

OP: Next time reconsider doing so unless you're positive you're not equally immature. I'm just sayin'.


Agree. Keying a guy's car is about the worst thing you can do to him. It's the male equivalent of the C-word, but way worse.

Keying a girl's car sucks just as much. Just because we don't want to dry hump the hood of our ride doesn't mean we don't value it all the same.

[ethical]

It's probably his girlfriend signing up new accounts and voting.

Oh no! She's infiltrated MR!! Everyone protect your Macs and head for the safety of your nearest Apple Store!

[MasterDev]

Drop her ass, then blow up her house.

Heh...

[leekohler]

Dump her. She's abusive. This is a no-brainer. Dump her and go get therapy- I'm serious.

[ethical]

Dump her. She's abusive. This is a no-brainer. Dump her and go get therapy- I'm serious.

If the therapy is to help him forget the memories, then he could just stand in the way of the iPhone next time she throws it. Much cheaper, and you only get a bump on the head.

[leekohler]

If the therapy is to help him forget the memories, then he could just stand in the way of the iPhone next time she throws it. Much cheaper, and you only get a bump on the head.

No- the therapy is to find out why he's put up with this for so long, identify the pattern and make sure he doesn't date someone like this again.

[Mike Teezie]

http://psychobloodline.com/CMS/Portals/0/PSYCHO%20PHILES/PSYCHO%20Small.jpg

[azboricua]

So just 30 mins ago, my gf was snooping through my phone and found a text she didn't like. She threw my iPhone into my brand new MacBook pro and put a dent on it. I just stared at my MacBook, in disbelief and didn't even say a word to her. She left and didn't even say sorry. I posted up a facebook status about how angry I was and what happened, she commented on it and said she's definitely gonna key my car again..LOL wtf?

Prior to this: She's...

- Keyed up my car for hanging out with a girl. It wasn't hanging out, the girl was helping me pick out something for my gf's bfday and she still didn't care

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Been with her for 5 years but I'm about ready to drop her ass! What would you guys do in this case?

The ho needs to go, and you should expect things like this if you're gonna keep playing around.

[leekohler]

The ho needs to go, and you should expect things like this if you're gonna keep playing around.

Doesn't sound like he's been playing around. Even if he was, no one should be treated like this. If a guy did this to a girl, you'd be advising her to call the cops. This kind of behavior is NOT OK, and it will only get worse.

[SteveMobs]

dent her back.

[designgeek]

Just treat people the way you want to be treated. everyone makes mistakes.

just make sure you tell her if there's another one, then 'thats is it'

To quote one of my good friends: "Five or six more time of that and I'm through!" She was being sarcastic mostly but her boyfriend had just recently tried to hit her and was subsequently beat up by another friend's burly older brother. He was then thrown out of the house with all of his possessions.

I'm not saying you should literally throw her and her stuff out but maybe suggest it.

[ikermalli]

There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.

Apple would lose a ton of money on that one

[IBradMac]

Dump her and blacklist (http://www.iblacklist.com.br/iblacklist/index.php) her.






Dump her. Physical abuse is where any relationship stops.

....

Exactly.

[Melrose]

Major Dump.

I can understand her being upset at times, but going by her reactions she's very, very childish and vindictive.

[shivermetimbers]

I guess I am exceptionally cruel. I dont put up with crap. Want to play insecure......see ya. I am uber-bitchy about my 17" uMBP or any of my Mac's. To fling my phone into my MBP would be a foot to ass launch/departure out of my front door. My wife is Korean...she has a level head. Most Koreans freak the HELL OUT without a thought. I think she love the Mac's more than me. We do well. With that...its hard to beat the Korean temper. Find a nice girl.........

[techfreak85]

An i for an i. :p
Fixed that for you.
Please people... this is an Apple Forum...:rolleyes:;)

but srsly, Dump. she treats you badly, and worse, breaks your Apple stuff.

[Keebler]

There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.

LMAO

to the OP: she is disrespectful. certainly sounds like she's got a tad of 'jealousy' issues.

i'm sorry, but i wouldn't put up with that crap in a heartbeat.

unacceptable.

buh-bye to her. I know you've been with her 5 years, but that's just not how ppl are supposed to treat each other.

keyed your car? yikes...

[Boneoh]

Ditch the bit... I mean witch!

[sanPietro98]

Say goodbye and don't look back.

By the way, did the iPhone survive?

[iPhone 62S]

You should not only dump her, but you should sue her for damage to property.

[ecstasy]

The best thing to do is drop her.

But then, she might go even crazier. Just be sure to hide your valuables next time.

;)

[After G]

Damn ... nobody should have to go through that ...

She's ******* insane!

I mean, where's the discussion? She didn't even ask you, and just assumed you were doing something wrong, and resorted to physical violence and property damage?

:eek: ... and :eek::eek::eek: for good measure.

[Love]

Wirelessly posted (The Evil Device: BlackBerry9000/4.6.0.282 Profile/MIDP-2.0 Configuration/CLDC-1.1 VendorID/107)

I would NOT put up with that. Break it off.crazy people are not to have relationships with

[RayK]

It took 5 years to figure this out?

[Abstract]

BAM! Right in the baby-maker.

[Capt Crunch]

Good thing you told everyone how angry you were on facebook!

Make sure you break up by changing your status to "single".

[SheepShaver]

As I've been in a somewhat similar situation once (violent gf, gee, she was even into fist fighting and my living room door had a big dent of something that she did throw at me :D) I say ditch her. When a relationship comes to these levels there isn't really much to fix anymore.

[kymac]

Good thing you told everyone how angry you were on facebook!

Make sure you break up by changing your status to "single".

only if he has a garage to keep his car in! :eek:

[Love]

I'm almost afraid to think what she will do to you if you break up... oh, god.

[DiamondMac]

I get the feeling that the 88% who voted to dump her are all whipped like crazy with their gf's and wives

It's always the whipped ones who claim to have the dominance in the relationship online

[leekohler]

I get the feeling that the 88% who voted to dump her are all whipped like crazy with their gf's and wives

It's always the whipped ones who claim to have the dominance in the relationship online

I'm a single homo. And never once have I put up with violence of any kind from a partner.

Furthermore- no one is claiming dominance here. Anyone who does things like this needs help, not encouragement. This is an abusive relationship, plain and simple, and it needs to end. It doesn't need to be "worked out". It needs to be over, and she needs to be told why. Trust me, this will only get worse the longer it goes on.

I'm almost afraid to think what she will do to you if you break up... oh, god.

It's called a restraining order. She goes near him, she gets arrested.

[iPhone 62S]

Good thing you told everyone how angry you were on facebook!

Make sure you break up by changing your status to "single".

Sorry for the off-topic post, but you have a awesome username!

While I'm at it, sanPietro98, you have a awesome signature! That's from the Doctor Who episode "Blink", right?

To even it out, here's something on-topic: OP, you can actually sue her for damage to property, especially for keying your car. I'd seriously look into it if I where you, especially if the iPhone was damaged, or the car repair was/is expensive, etc.

[doubleohseven]

Let her go. If she's already causing problems like this, imagine how she would be later on in life.... :eek:

Besides, relationships (can) lead to marriage. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who dents your MBP and keys your car?

[DiamondMac]

Furthermore- no one is claiming dominance here.

I think most voting are in fact doing so even if through a passive aggressive way

I just find it funny to see so many in relationship threads scream, 'Dump her! She sucks! I would never stand for that!' and I just can see them signing off and having their wives/gf's telling them what to do the rest of the day.

People can go online to vent their frustrations and I think that comes screaming out in many different ways

[shivermetimbers]

I had an abusive first marriage. My ex would get ripped of soju and turn into lucifer. I am a low key dood. There are better things to do that be stressed out over a GF/BF/Spouse acting like an anus. Life is too short and I divorced her. Stay calm, lay it down and stand your ground.

Worst possible thing....dont have sex with her anymore if you're going to break it off. If you do......just shot yourself in the foot. My ex tried that. I picked her up and tossed her outside buck nekked...threw her clothes out and locked the door. "See you in divorce court Tues." Sounds rotten I know, my BS meter was pegged out for the week......

[sdsvtdriver]

do you really have to ask?