Why not respond to the contact us forms as you instruct those in violation to do? Why wait for them to come here and make a public post? Why is there a double standard, especially when you hold all the edit/delete cards?
But sure, let it fly.
As I pointed out above, we can't find any contact message sent from your user name. Since you've waived your right to moderation privacy, here's a review. Moderation takes history into account.
On November 2nd you received a reminder for calling another member a troll. If you read the Rules for Appropriate Debate, you'll see that members are specifically told that you can't call a troll a troll. You can debate the content of a member's post, but you can't call that member names.
On November 8th you received a reminder for soliciting (offering to pay for help). That's also a clear rules violation - you'll find that situation mentioned specifically in the Forum Rules.
On November 11th you received a reminder for a frivolous/off-topic post. At this point you could have received a warning rather than a reminder, since moderation is escalated. This was however a very minor thing, so the moderators seem to have decided that a reminder was sufficient, which I can understand. Instead of contacting us to explain the context, you responded with this PM:
are you kidding me? I cant post something on this site that I have seen plenty of other people post plenty of times? This is getting pretty ridiculous. You guys are quite anal and ridiculously up tight. have seen mods make posts just like this and nothing, they dont get deleted at all. Pretty onesided "club" you got going here.
On November 16th you received yet another reminder (still not escalated to a warning) because you discussed specific moderation in a public thread:
Im 34 years old and I was put on time out by someone I have never met and could possibly be younger than me. The internet sucks. lol
This comment was in direct response to a moderator's note in the thread, and was made despite the fact that 1) the comment itself is a rules violation, and 2) your account has never been put in a temporary suspension ("time-out"). Your comment was a response to a quote of a mod note. Mod notes are only inserted into threads when necessary - we don't want to disrupt the discussion, but very occasionally we insert a note in the hope that members will self-moderate from that point on. Replying to them only takes the thread off-topic, so if you've got a particular beef about moderation it's better to start a thread here (as long as it's worded in general terms) or send a contact (if you want to be specific).
Today you were given your first warning, for insulting another member:
You are an absolute idiot.
After reviewing your moderation history, I see that the moderators have been fairly patient, issuing reminders when they could have escalated to warnings sooner. You're made it clear that you feel moderation is too strict, but the rules are outlined, you accepted them as part of the registration process, and in each case you've been moderated there was reason to do so, with a basis in the rules.
Remember that each member is responsible for his or her own posts, regardless of what anyone else posts. If you see problems, report them, and if the moderators agree that a rule was broken, something will be done. If you report something and nothing is done, you can contact us to ask why - we're happy to explain, and since there was no moderation involved we can be specific in our answer to you. We wish there were some sort of automatic feedback function to let members know when no action will be taken on their reports, but unfortunately there isn't.
You can't however use other members' posts to defend your own. If you'd like to contest moderation, send a contact message. It helps to be clear and polite in the message, but we respond to every contact that isn't obvious spam, regardless.
I hope this clears it up, not only for you, but for the other members following this thread.
Edit: I see you responded while I was preparing this review. I still hope that this post makes things make a bit more sense.