I am so disappointed. I found this thread for the first time today, but I tried ebay and the outletpc link but with no luck. ebay is $110 and outletpc is out of stock
I did stumble upon an amazon listing of a different brand of memory, and there are reviews from people saying that it works at 16gb on a 2010 13". Based on the linked mushkin ram, it should be specc'd as: 1066mhz pc3 8500. But this ram I found is: 1333mhz pc3 10600/10666. They are both 2.5V but they're timing is different 7-7-7-20 and 9-9-9-24 (respectively). I'm going to assume this ram won't work.
Would anyone mind looking it over in case I overlooked something? If all else fails I can just purchase it and return, but I would like to get as much info as I can so I don't have to waste time with shipping back and forth.
I'm actually on a MacBook pro 7,1 but this was the most informative thread I've found for the 16gb ram hardware discussion.
Here's the amazon item I found:
http://amzn.com/B00698WP50
Here's the OutletPC link for reference:
http://www.outletpc.com/ug3762-mushkin-997019-ddr3-16gb-2x8gb-laptop-memory.html