What you should probably do is right-click on the kexts for each and "Show package contents", that will let you get to the files inside. Info.plist is where the settings are held - so if you compare the Macbook-fixed version with the new one and copy the settings across that should do it.
Just tried that. There was one different value in the info.plist, called 'IOPCIMatch'. I changed it to the value that tomd25 had for it, which is '0x00000000&0x00000000' in stead of '0x000010de&0x0000ffff'.
I deleted the one that I had and replaced it with an updated version with changed values. After a restart, NVInject did start (which is good), but there are no visible changes. Still banded colors on the Macbook display and fortunately no pinstripes on the external display (which is good).
I really have no idea what I'm doing by changing values around. Is there someone around with a bit more expertise?