.ics Auto adds to the wrong Calendar

Hey folks need some help on this.

I have/use iCloud and have multiple calendars set up- (2) of which are shared calendars with my family.

On iPhone, the events are set to auto select my Personal calendar when adding an event.

But, on my Mac I have a problem.

When I get invites for corp. meetings; they sent over in an .ics event invite. When I open the invite- it adds to my cal as a travel (shared calendar), and my family gets notified for the event. I of course change it to a personal event on my cal; but cannot avoid iCal adding it to the wrong calendar in the first place.

How do i fix this?
Our company uses Exchange if it makes any difference

Weaselboy said:

Try going to this screen in Calendar prefs and change the default calendar to the iCloud calendar you want to use for this.

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thanks Weaselboy, but forgot to mention that is also set to the correct cal I want appointments to default to.

it simply does not work, every damn ics. invite appointment goes to my travel cal, which is like 5th on my list.