Who ever said the screen makes it faster? As far as "dealing with it" I did that too. I bought the 4, used it until Apple released the 5 (skipped 4s), and now I have the 5.
Sounds like the only person having a hard time dealing here is you. Or more accurately, need to figure out a better way to deal with people disagreeing with you than dropping your IQ down into the teens with a gem of a comment like "the screen doesn't make the phone faster" a lame comment followed by an even worse car analogy.
The entire point of everything I was saying was that the 4 is not a good upgrade because it does not have more capability, is less future proof, and becomes obsolete faster. Just like the 3G.
Just asking for people to read what I wrote a bit, thats all.