A disappointing number of responses on this thread simply validates some of what the OP complains about. Happily, there is also some insight and common sense here, too, though on the MacRumors forum such positives can sometimes seem to be outweighed by the bratty snarling.
Unfortunately, there are people far too ready to contribute a 'school playground attitude' when they post a response.
It should not be unreasonable for one to expect a little patience and common courtesy from one's fellow members at least, more than often is the case but instead there are plenty who are quite prepared to get on some high horse or other and make 'clever' comments at the first available opportunity. Yes. it's a public forum, OP, but stick around and you'll learn to tune out the white noise.