Need 2 features that are missing in iMail

I switched to a MacBook Pro 3 months ago from using WXP with Outlook 2003.

I need to be able to hold my outgoing mail rather then sending it immediately. In Outlook I could set it to stay in the outbox until I was ready to send it.

I'd also like to have the "capitalize the first word of each sentence" feature that Word edit would do in Outlook.

I am presuming neither of these features are in iMail so my question is:

Do I need to buy Outlook for Mac or Office for Mac to get these 2 features?

Thanks,
Anna

Thanks, I have started doing that. I also re-arranged the toolbar so I don't send them by mistake too.

It seems the phrase "that feature is gone" is popping up with all the new software too. So I guess I'll just have to adapt and keep reminding myself: change is good.

Anna