ok i am about to go crazy right nowww....all i want to do is be able to send my buddies pics, or songs, or any other files over ichat...it makes no sense why this has to be soo hard...i have searched this all over google and i cannot seem to fix it...i have opened soo many different ports on my linksys wrt54g wireless router firewall and none of them seem to work...i am seroiusly about to buy a windows laptop just because of stupid little things like this...somebody please help...and please dont just send me a link to apple's support site because that wont help...thanks in advance