Read your post and saw something funny that you wrote. Beginning with the part that you said about the iPad 4 "it is really heavy". Than you wrote down below "3rd Generation weight you could live with" than soon after you wrote " 4th Generation seems more like a "S" since it still has the same design and weight"
How can it have the same weight as the ipad 3 when you said the iPad 4 was real heavy over the iPad 3 ?
Its not an "S" version simply because of the faster CPU, the better FaceTime HD over the other models, the better tweaked WiFi hardware, and the smaller connector. Those things make it an iPad 4, not ipad 3S.
Aha. But remember, at the time the iPad 3 was released, you could live with the weight because 1) the Retina was completely new and brilliant and an acceptable tradeoff for the heavy weight and 2) you expected the next refresh to become thinner and lighter as is the case for almost all refreshed models. Kinda like, "Gee the iPad 2 is lighter but I'll take Retina even if it means a heavier iPad."
Because the iPad 4 is a refresh and has the same weight, it is no longer acceptable and it is now too heavy. Everything has Retina now and you expect with the advancement in battery and technology, it is a letdown that it is the same weight as the iPad 3.
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No no. Go back and read my question again.
If you are inferring that the title doesn't exactly match the body of the thread, it is due to space limitations that MacRumors set on the amount of space in the title. I basically meant "I hate to say it but 4th generation owners will feel more burned next year with the iPad 5 than 3rd generation owners felt burned with the iPad 4 this year."
I figured I can get away with a bad title since I can explain it better in the post.