hi,
since I never use iTunes and it interferes with my remote media keys I'd like to disable it or removed.
thanks
I found this on the Google. Still not sure why you'd want to do this. Probably because I don't know what a remote media key is.
http://osxdaily.com/2012/02/06/delete-itunes-mac-os-x/
Try Better Touch Tool (it supports customizing the IR remote)
Did you try removing iTunesHelper from the login items under Users & Groups preferences (and then reboot)?
My buttons respond to VLC when VLC is on and iTunes is off. Though if both are off iTunes will start when I press play. Maybe you could just leave VLC turned on the whole time?