I love that there are only these two options.....
What about those of us who genuinely like our Apple products, and while we are excited/hopeful for new features and advancements, we don't feel the need to foam at the mouth and criticize Apple for perceived shortcomings.
As long as Apple is around, there will be haters, those who criticize, those who say Apple will fail - that's the nature of it. The same things were said after the 4S and before that.....
Nobody here criticizing Apple is foaming at the mouth. For you to suggest such a thing is really nothing more than being a bit thin-skinned over anything that you perceive as negative about Apple.
The only people I see getting overly emotional are those who have some sort of need to defend Apple.
As for me, I see 2010 as an innovative year for the current Apple. That was the year the iPad was released. That was the year of the iPhone 4. That was the year of the current Macbook Air design. It is now 2013 and each of those have mostly gone unchanged.
When I look at my current phones, a Note 2 and Nexus 4, I can't help but think, "it didn't have to be this way."
Moreover, no one is asking to take whatever it is you like now away. There is no reason Apple can't, for example, keep a 4" iPhone and a 5" iPhone. But if the only thing Apple has to offer are to people who cling to the older designs they won't have the same market to sell into (eventually).
Finally, there is clear evidence that Apple must, in fact, listen: the very existence of the iPad mini shows that. The market was clamoring for a smaller tablet and Apple had no choice but to respond. But this time they were following not leading. The margins on the mini are not at Apple's normal levels and it is one reason for the negativism in the market towards them right now. They are taking a hit on profit due to that. On the other hand they might be worse off had they taken your approach and said that all was fine the way it is and continued to offer only the full size iPad.
I would prefer they get back to leading.
Michael