I deleted flash the last time this issue came up. The only problem is that now on my Mac every website that uses flash tells me I have a missing plug-in. So I use my ipad instead. Does anyone know if there is a setting that I need to adjust so that safari on my Mac will work like safari on my ipad? Thank you. I feel silling asking, but it appreciate those that will be patient and kind.
Use ClickToPlugin - it's a Safari Extension that replaces plugin views with gray boxes that you can click to load. If you don't click them, they don't load and no messages Popup. If you click them, it behaves just like normal.