I should add: I want to keep my TC because its a more stable autoconnect drive to back up all my computers remotely (than an airdisk on a different router). I also have the drive partitioned and have my iTunes Music/Movie/TV library hosted on it (no room on my SSD MBP). And with that said, when Bonjour is working, I can just open my laptop anywhere in the world and my TC drive loads automagically and my iTunes finds all of my media (well before EE).
Now EE's modem/router doesn't allow for bridge mode, so Bonjour has been broken since. I would rather replace it with a modem where I can turn a VPN service on or off. I assume the VPN service may break the VPN (and slow my internet connection for times where I don't need to access regional content) so some ability to control it would be nice.