It takes 6 months to ensure tests to verify HIV antibodies are or are not in the bloodstream.
A 12 month abstinence before giving blood seems a little long, so why the extra delay just for one group of people?
Heterosexuals have gotten AIDS as well, like certain celebrities of recent and they're not gay, so why don't they have the same ban - no sex for a 12 month timeframe, no drugs, no anything else that can bring in HIV? That way nobody can scream "bigotry" or "special privileges".
Also of interest, since gay men are all angry over this, maybe there's emotional manipulation at work designed to compel gay men to not donate in a proud stance of boycotting since we all know that voting with our wallets works (except for when it obviously doesn't...)?
Either way, nobody knows for sure why 12 months are needed or why only gay men must wait, and how are facts checked to ensure Billy B. Bi hasn't bopped for that time period where as Henry H. Hetero can screw all he wants with as many women and go donate blood six days later so he can get a cookie and a band-aid? *FACEPALM*
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In the US, the Red Cross bars you from donating if you "are a male who has had sexual contact with another male, even once, since 1977".
The father of a friend of mine and his partner have been a monogomous, committed couple since 1980. They are each other's first and only same-sex partner. Ever. They are *FAR* safer than many people who engage in opposite-sex sexual contact. (They don't engage in any other risky behaviors, either.) Thus they have *ZERO* risk of HIV/AIDS. (Well, as much risk as any married couple that were virgins before they got married; since my friend's father's only other relationship was to my friend's mother, a marriage that lasted 2 years before he realized he was gay. They're still friends, too.)
In theory, that sounds nice. Wish it were that way for everyone but what you describe is quite the odds shattering situation. So I too shall present a couple of theories:
Zero risk? How much money should be bet on that since most of us don't like listening to details and watch absolute proof of how we know others' sex lives are truly THAT safe, noting I wouldn't want to hear every detail of every act heterosexuals do inside or outside a claimed monogamous relationship. Gays are no different than heterosexuals when it comes to the potential for infidelity, males moreso because the male is usually doing the pursuing and males typically want it all the time (unless alcohol or antidepressants kill the libido), pardon the sexism as I know that not all males are that caricature either or at least know how to keep it in their pants. Anyway, how do you know they've never ever cheated, where one partner doesn't tell the other and managed to make a lifetime of keeping secrets, since gay people often have to keep their orientation a secret for life though that's no longer something we have to do? I consider myself lucky my ex never gave me HIV (yes, he cheated and, yes I too am a guy (and bi and HIV-, thankfully), yes I do counseling of other gay people and what you say I find difficult to believe though I am not saying that scenario is impossible either, and, yes, I am lucky my ex felt guilty enough to tell me what he had done, albeit almost a year later after doing it - some scumbags don't bother to admit they were a complete (jerk) to someone they claim to love... Some people who are blissfully in relationships may not know about being cheating on, never mind contracting HIV until it's YEARS since exposure where symptoms start to show due to the immune system wearing down as a result of the virus...)
But you already said it, using heterophobia and inverse-homophobia (where all gay people are pristine and perfect by default) of all things. People of any orientation can cheat or be less than pristine. Your one couple as a reference is great but those two are not the whole of the gay community, much less the whole of the population. That one couple is a minority OF a minority. I know that because I am not hetero either, have counseled people in relationships, and listened to stories from every creed in the community... again, that is why a universal set of rules for all to obey need to be in place. One year abstinence for anyone wanting to donate, or six months since that's the time 100% of HIV blood tests are deemed 100% accurate. Any hetero that pumps his or her body with drugs could get HIV and donate a week later and the people running Red Cross wouldn't bat an eyelid. True myopia, worthy of "Idiocracy"...
I truly hope the people you describe really are that noble and ethical. Most gay men don't have it as easily as they had, either because they wanted it are were in the minority and spat on by fellow people in the community, or because they absconded "traditional mores" and decided they didn't have to be because there was no family as such and could be with anyone they wanted... and get to know people with HIV and really find out what being burned feels like. It's enough to make anybody abstinent.
The issue really is, regardless of orientation and if one wants to be mono or poly or whatever, there should be a universal set of laws for all -- since
we both know HIV is not a "gay disease". Never was, even if gays had a higher proportion of incidents combined to numerous factors:
a. being < 10% the general population
b. are more likely to live in areas of familiarity with one another
c. engaging in unsafe acts, even out of depression, or inebriated, or high - because of persecution and other issues in a hostile society, anyone over 30 is more likely going to use drugs or booze as escape mechanisms. Today's kids have it pretty damn good in terms of acceptance, and even then...
d. refusing to live in a heteronormative way (e.g. family (even without kids, a couple can be a family of their own), monogamy, marriage for the sake of marriage and valuing one another - you
will find a number of people who do not want marriage but openly say they used the fight to make it a law just to be perceived as first class citizens. I only fought for it before it became "cool" to do so and was told by too many gay men how marriage was a thing of the past, amongst other things...)
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The don't know the incubation period for cjd and similar diseases have an estimated incubation period of up to 50 years. It is prudent to have restrictions in place when the restrictions have only tiny impact on blood supply.
Yikes.
And to be fair, keeping the chances of impact down to zero percent is ideal. Irrational actions or not, there is no one side that deserves blame. It's all one big multi-layered tragedy.