In my experience VOIP at home often has these same problems unless you use QOS to allocate a portion of your upstream bandwidth to the VOIP device. Of course the Airport Extreme doesn't have this capability (nor do most consumer devices) but it's the one reason I run Tomato firmware at home. I've successfully set this up for numerous friends and family members who were previously having issues with VOIP at home.
I'd be interested in what the 'priority' mode does. Other than 802.1p priority tagging, (which I'm not sure home routers recognize and even so, what would stop any device or application from setting the highest priority flag?) I'm not sure how they could guarantee priority without taking over some routing functions.
Priority mode is putting the Microcell in front of the router. Meaning the connection is Modem > Microcell > Router.
They're telling me that the Airport Extreme does not support bridging or something like that, they're not being specific, but if I'm not connected to the router, meaning the connection is Modem > Microcell > Computer, I am not able to log into a PPPOE server and get an internet connection on either the Microcell or the computer.