I should be asleep right now but I just can't seem to get some shut eye. It's been this way the entire weekend. I lent some money out to my best friend with the agreement that I'd be paid back the following day. It's now three days later and she seems to be making up excuses as to why she hasn't transferred the amount. Mind you, all of these excuses I've debunked. [Note to anyone trying to say they're delayed at an airport, flight statuses can be checked online.]
I don't want to come off as an ******* but I need the money back by the end of the day because I have other financial obligations and I refuse to be late on them. My fault for making the assumption that she'd stick to her word. I didn't have any previous experiences with her that would make me question the decision to give her a loan. It wasn't a gift. Otherwise, I would've stated it was. I don't know if I am more upset that my money is gone or that she lied to me.
So how do I go about getting my funds returned and is it even worth it to call her out on the lie? I've called and texted her and each time, it's a different excuse.
P.S. I know this is a lesson learned but I never expected my BF to be so irresponsible and disrespectful of my time and money. I'm just pissed. I don't know what to think of our friendship after this ordeal.
I don't want to come off as an ******* but I need the money back by the end of the day because I have other financial obligations and I refuse to be late on them. My fault for making the assumption that she'd stick to her word. I didn't have any previous experiences with her that would make me question the decision to give her a loan. It wasn't a gift. Otherwise, I would've stated it was. I don't know if I am more upset that my money is gone or that she lied to me.
So how do I go about getting my funds returned and is it even worth it to call her out on the lie? I've called and texted her and each time, it's a different excuse.
P.S. I know this is a lesson learned but I never expected my BF to be so irresponsible and disrespectful of my time and money. I'm just pissed. I don't know what to think of our friendship after this ordeal.