Not sure what went wrong but I was able to sync my ipad with my iphone wirelessly. Whenever I would do something on the iphone it would show up on the ipad and vice versa. I would delete something on the ipad it would get. Deleted on the iphone but its not doing it anymore. This started like 2 days ago I did noticed that when I woke up my iphone from sleep it did asked me to login to iTunes.