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Originally Posted by obeygiant
The difference between fantasizing over an attractive teacher and this case is that students can go find her movies and watch her **** in a pornographic movie.
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I don't see the issue, really. My classmates and I were already fantasizing over my attractive teacher; if we had a pornographic film of her, what would that have changed? We'd be able to use our eyes instead of our imaginations? We already knew the anatomy of the female body, and I'm sure that many of us had already found our way into accessing other pornographic films. My guess is that any act on film might have been tamer than what some of my peers were thinking up.
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Originally Posted by obeygiant
What baffles me is that so many here compartmentalize teachers and porn stars and and think there is no problem while failing to see the larger issue of why a former porn actress as a middle school teacher would raise flags.
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Why should it raise flags? If this teacher stated an agenda of wanting to push all of her students into the porn industry then yes, that should raise flags. But for simply being featured in porn?
As I've said earlier in the thread, I wouldn't approve of anyone close to me entering the porn industry. I don't think it's a particularly good field to be in, and I feel that it's demeaning to many of the women who work in it. But I also recognize that there are a variety of reasons why someone might go into that industry. We don't know why she entered the industry in the first place. What we
do know is that she's trying to get out of it, to enter a more respectable field. So what's the big deal?
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Originally Posted by obeygiant
Then instantly go to extremes of "should they wear burkas" or "americans just hate sex" for reasons why someone who agrees with the decision would think that way.
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I brought up the burkas because you specifically stated that her "effectiveness" in teaching "hormonal tweens" would be compromised if they knew about her erotic past. To me, it sounded as if you were saying that the students would fixate on her as an object of sexual desire if they knew that she was in pornography, with the logical counter-point being that a porn-free past would mean that no "hormonal tween" would think of their teacher in a sexual manner. As I (and a few others who have had attractive teachers) have mentioned before, this is not the case. Hormonal boys are going to fantasize over women no matter what, and they don't need to see them in a pornographic film to do so.
So getting to the root of your concerns about "effectiveness," your concern must really be that you don't want boys to be fantasizing about their teachers, right? It seems like a valid concern - it's nothing new, of course, but sexual desire might distract some boys from what the teacher is trying to teach. This is where my remark about burkas come in. Boys will fantasize about almost any woman, but if you hide enough features then there's not much to go on. Oh, they'll probably fantasize about the girls sitting next to them, but maybe we can cover them up, too...
Maybe I've misunderstood your point? You've stated that her past of being in porn represents a travesty of some sort, but it isn't clear to me why that should matter now, since she is no longer participating in the industry. You've stated that her being in pornography would reduce her effectiveness with her students, but haven't explained why nor reconciled with the fact that teenage boys are going to fantasize over attractive women even if they haven't seen them naked or engaging in sex. These really seem like non-issues that ignore what's going on in reality and cast judgment unfairly.