Considering this is more a matter of personal opinion than a statement of fact, your anger is definitely misplaced.
I personally find ICS to be buggy, clumsy and I'll conceived. As a developer with experience on every mobile platform since the first Palm and Newton devices, my opinion is certainly not naive or uneducated.
It is however my opinion, and while you are entitled to yours as well, that does not make it any more valid than mine or anyone else's.
You can certainly argue positives about one or the other, and saying that the software that has been developed for iOS is slicker and smoother than that which has been developed for Android is, in general, a valid point. However, that can easily be countered with a myriad of other points, like free apps, native Google integration, the way it handes the user's Google Account, etc, etc.
But, at the end of the day, at this point in the game, and given the data about the popularity of both, as well as expert reviews of both platforms, it is arrogant, uneducated, and patently false to claim that one is vastly superior to the other as a whole, unless you are only looking at one very specific feature or functionality, i.e. Google Maps or iTunes. Those types of integration can be selling points for individuals, but overall, both are extremely competitive platforms, and any buyer who doesn't acknowledge that when buying a smartphone is an uneducated sheep (and there are the anti-Apple Android sheep just like there are iSheep). If one were so vastly superior, there wouldn't be a fiercely competitive race between the iPhone 5 and devices like the Galaxy S III or the DROID RAZR series.
This comes from someone who owned an SGS I (AT&T, so no DROIDs unfortunately) and now an iPhone 4S, and has seen the ups and downs of both platforms. If you look at my gear, I have an Apple bias, but I am currently planning on acquiring an Android tablet, two Windows PCs and possibly an Android smartphone to run alongside a multitude of Apple and non-Apple devices. I used Windows all my life, and now I use mostly Mac at home, and Windows at work (no choice there, but the only things I don't like about it are because of the locked-down corporate IT).