Ok, there have been movie stars for 80 years or so.. and stage 'stars' for a few hundred before that. These are not people who had the spotlight cast upon them out of the blue for saving a puppy, or winning the lottery... these are people who, for the most part, set out early in life to get as much attention as possible.. then they want to dictate when and how they get that attention. This game has been played, as I said, for far too long to feel any sort of sympathy whatsoever for the people involved. They want to have their cake and eat it, too.
Is it too much to ask to be a movie star and have a private life, too? Well, apparently the answer is yes, it IS too much to ask... And has been, for longer than the vast majority of these people have been alive. They made their choices, they accepted the trade-off, now live with it. Many of these same people will be drinking and drugging themselves to death in a decade or so when the spotlight has moved on and they WANT the attention again. Everyone else has to live with the situations they make for themselves, I do not understand why celebrities think the same should not apply to them. Rightly or wrongly, that is how it is. Take the 30 seconds and let the media get their pictures, and the HUGE majority of this rabid shutterbug crap will take care of itself.