Doesn't make it more efficient though. Because then I have to save the ones that I DO want....and to my photo stream if I want it on my computer.
Yes it does. What happens is that the pictures you take are being saved in Camera+'s so called Lightbox (which is comparable to its own camera roll). You can scroll through the pictures and delete the ones you don't want to keep. After that, you hit "save all" and that will save those pictures you liked to the camera roll - which means they're also sent to your Photo Stream.
This is how I do things, because I had the same issues as you and I must say it's really simple. I just shoot away like crazy, then when I have the time I go through the pictures to get rid of the bad ones. The fact that you have to hit "save all" to save them to the camera roll is definitely easier than having to delete the bad pictures twice
OK but.....Even if you have Photo Stream turned off.....If you take a pic that you don't like you still would have to delete it from both the Photo Stream and your Camera Roll would you not? (two times)
No, because if you have Photo Stream turned off, the photos aren't sent there.
Another thing that I just realized is that iPhoto shows videos taken on your iphone....but will not play them...it has somehow turned my videos into a 1 frame photo of them....ruined....this system needs work.
This is simply not true. The only way iPhoto turns your video into a single picture is if you export it to a .jpg. When you import videos from your phone, it imports the videos and it will play them. But if you want to export a video, you have to choose "Original" in the "Kind"-option. This means if you want to export for instance a few pictures and a video, but you don't want to export the full sized or original pictures, you need to export them separately.
Deletes them? Oh that's good haha (sarcasm).... So if I am traveling my wonderful photos might just be gone when I get home? Sweet
Photo Stream isn't supposed to be anything but a temporary storage, so if you're travelling and expecting to use Photo Stream as the place to store your vacation photos, you're simply not informed about what Photo Stream is.
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All in all, I recommend that you read up on what Photo Stream is, what it does and how it works. Because to me it seems you don't really know, which could mean you're going to lose pictures you'd really want to keep...