How would you handle multi device/multi-service sync?

I dont know where else to ask, so feel free to move this somewhere else if needed.


My issue is this
My office uses MS Exchange (Outlook for client)
I use Google primarily for everything. Contacts, emails, Calendar.

I have gmail setup to work with my emails (still working on Calendar)
I have Outlook at work to also work with my gmail emails

While at work i use my MBP with Outlook to access emails, manage calendar. But i need it to sync with my google calendar!!

I registered for PLAXO only to find out they don't support gCal, so i deleted it.

In a perfect world this is what i need:
MBP running outlook for emails and Calendar (Exchange)
PC/Phone running Google apps for email and Calendar
I need them all real time synced. Need to open my phone and see an event i put on my calendar at work, need to open my work MBP and see an event i added from my phone.
Need to send work emails from both, need to send personal emails from both.

There is probably a very easy solution, but im losing my mind trying to piece it all together.

And now reading this email im even more confused, hahahaha!