I'll keep an eye on this thread as I have reached that point again where I can't make up my mind about 13 or 15" size.
My contribution:
From October 2012 till somewhere in June 2013, I carried a 15" Acer laptop to my university. Some weeks it was almost daily. That 15" Acer (5755g) was 2.65kg and 35mm thick, so a pretty big difference with a 15" rMBP, but still. I must admit that it wasn't a pleasant thing at all. I would only take that Acer laptop with me if it was REALLY (!) necessary.
From June I got a 13" Dell XPS 13 ultrabook. Man, I could take that thing with me even if I knew I probably wouldn't use it. You just almost don't feel it (around 1.3kg) and it's just very small and thin.
Now the thing for me is, while the XPS 13 is much, much more pleasant to take with you everywhere, I almost never USE it in a place/situation where I could not also use a 15" device. I worked 2-3x in the bus, it was decent, but after that I never did it again. It's just that a laptop in general, how small it may be (ok maybe the 11" laptop's... but those are almost tablets) is just not something I would use in a bus/train/any public transport. On the plane I have also never used my ultrabook, just my 4.7" smartphone.
So most of the time I use my laptops in places where both a 13 and 15" device would be fine. For carrying it around though, I still have a trauma from that 15" Acer. The difference is over half a kilo (2kg vs 2.6), 17mm thickness (18vs35mm), but still it's other dimensions are pretty similar (the rMBP is less wide though, which is good).
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As you can see there is a part of me which really says go 13". But then I think of how it is to work on a 13.3" (16:9) screen: it's not very "welcoming" for me personally. I kind of... don't like working hard for hours on such a screen size.
For me it's a real difference with a 15.4" screen. And on the other hand there is the power: you loose a considerable amount in terms of CPU, iGPU and dGPU all together. Yes the 15" with dGPU has a very high price to be able to do "everything" (just to name 2 things 3D rendering in Solidworks and playing games). But then again, 1500-1800 euro for a strong 13" isn't "cheap" either.
Yes, I'm very confused about this atm haha.