I solved my problem as follows:
I bought a DoubleSight 9.5" display. Comes with a stand and connects via USB.
It's small so it fits on my desktop in a very low profile, takes up very little space, and looks great.
This is not intended to watch movies or play games...this a a business setup...and working with a Mac mini constantly prepared me for working with such a small monitor, so no biggie for me. I run every Mac business program there is with little or no issues. (See bottom of post for issues I have encountered)
The DoubleSight was designed for mirror display, so I use a VGA dongle out of the Mac mini with a 100 ohm resistor to mimic a monitor present.
I rarely turn off the mini and the display turns on and off with the mini.
I set the mini to go to sleep after 10 minutes of non-use.
If I have an issue I just do a restart and wait a few minutes.
Between the Mac mini which is completely hidden because of its size, the very small display, the Bluetooth Mac keyboard and Bluetooth Mac trackpad, and my mini ipad sitting on its stand next to the DoubleSight, I have 2 devices and 75% of my desk still available for....dare I say???actual paper!
Issues:
The display will never be the resolution or shape of a MAC or my ipad. With very few exceptions, all software looks and behaves perfectly.
Numbers has an intro screen that doesn't quite fit so you can't access the bottom of the screen to turn it off, but you can close it.
Quick books for MAC has an intro screen that cannot be turned off because the "don't show this again" button is on the bottom of the screen which can't be seen due to the unusual resolution. For this, and other similar instances, I plug in an old standard VGA monitor, view the whiole screen, and access what is hidden on the DoubleSight...problem solved.
The DoubleSight is only about $125 and it allows my roll top desk to not look cluttered and crowded. I'm happy.