Kingsly said:
Sorry, I didn't know treating women with respect was prude-like behavior. Modern science shows us that women are far more psychologically complex and generally have higher IQ's than us males. So why, I ask, do we treat them like pieces of meat to look at and salivate? Mostly I got upset when I read comments like those on iTunes that were written by a bunch of outrageously immature guys thinking from their waist down. If those models want to flaunt themselves in front of a camera thats not my problem, but please, guys, have a little class.
The purpose of those videos is to titilate men, so if men act, well, titilated, then I have no idea why anyone would judge them negatively.
The reality is that we are biological creatures, and so, our primary function is survival and reproduction. Now, as relatively enlightened people, we see there is more to life than only that, but no matter how civilised we become, nothing changes the reality.
As for having class, well there are all types, and they all express themselves in their own ways. Some prefer understatement, and some prefer overstatement. Each propensity serves our society in its own way. That is to say, while I prefer class myself, there are times where it does not serve us. And while it would be nice for everyone to adjust their habits to each situation, the realistic alternative of a pleurality of differing voices seems to work well.
Kingsly said:
Lets talk about terrorism.
(by the way, they hate us because of the way we treat out women, hows that for ironic)
Actually, they are simply caught in the dilema every man faces: We want our own personal whore, but would rather that everyone else treat them as a lady. And we'd like to pretend our daughters are saints. We employ a strategy of freedom, being grateful for what we get, and either recoiling from or pretending not to notice what we don't like. They employ a simpler strategy of servitude.
Kingsly said:
A) I don't think my ideas are outdated. In fact, my ideas are new. For centuries women were treaded like dogs, now I'm giving them respect. (I belive the word here is "dissed"
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I am sure they are grateful for your generous gift. Actually, it's been a long long time since we treated women like dogs. Before women's liberation, we mostly didn't let them do things for "their own good", which is a paternalistic form of respect. Our newer version of respect is one that acknowledges they have the capacity of self-determination. That means allowing them to rise or fall, in their own way. Some people might confuse allowing someone to fall as disrespect, but they are wrong.
Kingsly said:
B) There is a difference between women at the beach wearing bathing suits and women jutting their breasts out as far as they will go and wearing skimpy bikini's with one side untied.
C) Do men go to the beach to get turned on? Do people download these videos to go swimming? Can you at least kinda-sorta see my point?
Have you ever been to a beach? You do realise that both sexes go there to show off their bodies? Women like being attractive. So do men. We both want attention from the opposite sex, and present our bodies in public to attain this. The difference between the videos and the beach is that the beach is in real life and the videos aren't. The beach allows interaction, and the videos only offer distraction.
Kingsly said:
D) I have a very fulfilling life thank you very much. Unlike many, I am able to have relationships with females that are about the friendship, not sex.
Actually, you are not unique. We all have mothers, sisters, cousins, coworkers, and friends who are women. But, we don't wrap ourselves in some wierd holier than thou garment.
Kingsly said:
E) Once again, what does wanting to treat women with respect and like an actual person have to do with my lifestyle? Is the life of a man measured by how many women he has played around with? Excuse me, but that is not the manly thing to do.
Kingsly... out!
People like being appreciated for all their attributes, not just personality, and not just their bodies. Both. Liking one is not mutually exclusive from the other. But liking only one is missing out on the greater picture. While a woman probably won't like a man to have messed around a lot, they will probably think something is wrong with you if you haven't been with any, depending on your age. There are 6 billion people on earth, which means, we are a commodity. Your and my value is determined partially by who we are, and partially by supply and demand. You have constant supply, like every other guy, but if you have no history of demand, then that is a red flag for women.