Video Library Manager?

To me iTunes is a mess with all my homemade videos. I would like to use an App that manages them like iPhoto, preferably with Airplay although it's not a must.

I downloaded Plex but was reading that it needs for the videos to be renamed outside the App which really pains me.

Any other suggestions?

Thank you very much. iVideo 7 is the one that looks more conveninet to me so I'm downloading the trial right now. I aprecciate the info.