I'm wondering why you are concerned by what task is using what memory? Prudence would dictate that if you aren't familiar with the so-called 'nuts & bolts' and aren't having any issues that you let things lie. Killing random tasks because you think they are hogging too many resources is silly and can lead to system instability, although the likelihood of you doing damage to your OS installation seems minimal. If you are trying to expand computing knowledge, all is well, although you should probably buy a book on OS X and learn and play once you have a basic competence.