Mine gets pretty hot sometimes, specially if I'm using the computer in a place where there's no AC (I'm in the caribbean, so the air temperature is usually pretty hot)
They always get very hot. My MB is relatively new to me, but with my last laptop (Acer), the adapter could practically burn me... it seemed unnaturally hot but apparently it's quite normal indeed. Just try to keep it off any damageable surfaces!
Well I'm not bothered about the work-top, but I did fall asleep a few weeks back, roll over onto the power-brick and wake up with a slow cooked patch on my back!