ya , there is no option on the iphone to do SSL it just automatically does it - at least when an other account is selected beacuse i got a message later to ask me to try without using SSL, i still haven't been able to set it up...
i setup imap on my webmail and it worked execpt sending email. i had to use the att stmp email server instead of the penn state one. also webmail and iphone are treated as two different mailboxes so if u read an email on iphone it will still be unread on webmail good luck. pm me if u need help