So, my friends a singer and she always sends me her songs via iChat for my opinion since she moved to irvine and i'm still in the bay area.... well, i updated to Leopard the other day and she tried to send me a new song and it wouldn't send. after i accepted the transfer, it would try to connect then would say something like she may have taken too long to respond. I dunno if it's because (I think) she's running tiger and i upgraded to leopard or if it's something else... HELP PLEASE!!! Any advise would be great!!