Gf dented my new macbook pro...

Undispu7ed · Sep 14, 2009, 12:42 PM

So just 30 mins ago, my gf was snooping through my phone and found a text she didn't like. She threw my iPhone into my brand new MacBook pro and put a dent on it. I just stared at my MacBook, in disbelief and didn't even say a word to her. She left and didn't even say sorry. I posted up a facebook status about how angry I was and what happened, she commented on it and said she's definitely gonna key my car again..LOL wtf?

Prior to this: She's...

- Keyed up my car for hanging out with a girl. It wasn't hanging out, the girl was helping me pick out something for my gf's bfday and she still didn't care

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Been with her for 5 years but I'm about ready to drop her ass! What would you guys do in this case?

iBookG4user · Sep 14, 2009, 12:45 PM

I would definitely dump her if she treats you that badly. She has no regard for your property and for you it sounds like, she's not worth your time.

Unspoken Demise · Sep 14, 2009, 12:50 PM

There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.

phineas · Sep 14, 2009, 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undispu7ed

So just 30 mins ago, my gf was snooping through my phone and found a text she didn't like. She threw my iPhone into my brand new MacBook pro and put a dent on it. I just stared at my MacBook, in disbelief and didn't even say a word to her. She left and didn't even say sorry. I posted up a facebook status about how angry I was and what happened, she commented on it and said she's definitely gonna key my car again..LOL wtf?

Prior to this: She's...

- Keyed up my car for hanging out with a girl. It wasn't hanging out, the girl was helping me pick out something for my gf's bfday and she still didn't care

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Been with her for 5 years but I'm about ready to drop her ass! What would you guys do in this case?

Dude

Love is blind, but in your case, either the sex is awesome or you really love her, but for her to show violence like she's done, I'd drop her NOW.

Keyed your car, I would have reported her to the Police and filed criminal charges against her.

Just drop her, or you could post her picture and email and myspace page here and we could all say hello, how about her cell number also.

ROFLMAO

Dump the broad, or what ever you call that whacko

heehee · Sep 14, 2009, 12:53 PM

An eye for an eye.

jessica. · Sep 14, 2009, 12:59 PM

Leave her. She sounds crazy and if you marry her and stick with her forever then just wait until she hits middle age.

NoSmokingBandit · Sep 14, 2009, 01:01 PM

It sounds to me like you care more about your macbook than your relationship anyway, so why bother trying to work it out?

It also sounds like she is being a bitch, so i would get rid of her anyway. It sounds like neither of you really care about each other very much.

Drumjim85 · Sep 14, 2009, 01:03 PM

get a restraining order.

arkitect · Sep 14, 2009, 01:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undispu7ed

- Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off

Wow.
Just because you didn't want to have sex?

Anyway. She sounds like bad news.

leomac08 · Sep 14, 2009, 01:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Unspoken Demise

There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.

yeah, she must have been one of those old 4GB iphone's that were discharge very quick, from the first generation iphone; time to get a new iphone 3G S or a used one..but not from EBAY or CRAIGSLIST!!.

quagmire · Sep 14, 2009, 01:08 PM

Dump her. I would have dumped her after keying my car and send her to jail........

nrivas · Sep 14, 2009, 01:11 PM

What is she doing out of the kitchen anyways?

Menge · Sep 14, 2009, 01:11 PM

Jeeesus, man! I'd have dropped her LONG ago O_o

ucfgrad93 · Sep 14, 2009, 01:13 PM

Given your history with her, I would dump her.

Consultant · Sep 14, 2009, 01:15 PM

Sounds like a psycho.

Perhaps look into a restraining order.

Small claims for damages. Keep the messages in which she said she would damage your property, etc.

Unspoken Demise · Sep 14, 2009, 01:15 PM

Then again, I dont think the Apple store would take her in for a refurb, seeing as after I would be done with her, there would be lots of physical damage to the unit.

Im kidding, Domestic Abuse is not funny.

melissa23 · Sep 14, 2009, 01:20 PM

First thing to do is talk to her! Tell her what you're telling us.

Does she know that those other incidents were unacceptable? Cos, really, they were- people in healthy relationships don't act like that!

I heard a quote once, which springs to mind- 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them.' I had an ex-boyfriend who hit me and told me I deserved it. I didn't, but that was all I knew as he was my first boyfriend. He wasn't sorry- that was who he was, and he showed me that in his actions.

Sidenote: I think after 5 years you should know her well enough be able to pick your gfs present on your own, but that's another matter.

Incidentally- what was in the text?

AAPLaday · Sep 14, 2009, 01:20 PM

Jeez so number 1 she keys your car, number 2 she throws your iPhone and number 3 she throws it at your macbook pro!!!! Id dump her and tell her its cause she gained weight lol

ethical · Sep 14, 2009, 01:23 PM

She's clearly very selfish and doesn't care for your opinion or property! Drop her like a hot potato!

jessica. · Sep 14, 2009, 01:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NoSmokingBandit

It sounds to me like you care more about your macbook than your relationship anyway, so why bother trying to work it out?

It also sounds like she is being a bitch, so i would get rid of her anyway. It sounds like neither of you really care about each other very much.

Actually above all, this is sage advice and a good observation. You two obviously outgrew each other, you're both fairly immature, and you both need to move on.

Undispu7ed · Sep 14, 2009, 01:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by melissa23

First thing to do is talk to her! Tell her what you're telling us.

Does she know that those other incidents were unacceptable? Cos, really, they were- people in healthy relationships don't act like that!

I heard a quote once, which springs to mind- 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them.' I had an ex-boyfriend who hit me and told me I deserved it. I didn't, but that was all I knew as he was my first boyfriend. He wasn't sorry- that was who he was, and he showed me that in his actions.

Sidenote: I think after 5 years you should know her well enough be able to pick your gfs present on your own, but that's another matter.

Incidentally- what was in the text?

It was a year into dating when the girl who went shopping with me, along with ANOTHER guy. Oh and it was her good friend too.

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)

Unspoken Demise · Sep 14, 2009, 01:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undispu7ed

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)

By 'tired out' did you mean like "Hoooboy! She tired me out last night."
or
"Im sick and tired of Asians?"

barr08 · Sep 14, 2009, 01:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undispu7ed

The text: My friend and I were talking about women and different personalities. I told my friend that I was tired out by asian girls (my gf is asian)

HA

edit: hahahaha

daneoni · Sep 14, 2009, 01:31 PM

The day a girl keys my car for something i didn't do is the day she gets deleted from my life. She sounds not only insecure but immature to boot.

jessica. · Sep 14, 2009, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by daneoni

The day a girl keys my car for something i didn't do is the day she gets deleted from my life. She sounds not only insecure but immature to boot.

The day a girl keys your car for any reason is the day you need to delete her. Girls have no reason to be that crazy, nor do guys for that matter.

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Undispu7ed macrumors newbie Join Date: Oct 2008	Gf dented my new macbook pro... So just 30 mins ago, my gf was snooping through my phone and found a text she didn't like. She threw my iPhone into my brand new MacBook pro and put a dent on it. I just stared at my MacBook, in disbelief and didn't even say a word to her. She left and didn't even say sorry. I posted up a facebook status about how angry I was and what happened, she commented on it and said she's definitely gonna key my car again..LOL wtf? Prior to this: She's... - Keyed up my car for hanging out with a girl. It wasn't hanging out, the girl was helping me pick out something for my gf's bfday and she still didn't care - Took a glass cup and dented my pc monitor (the LCD part) because I didn't want to get off Been with her for 5 years but I'm about ready to drop her ass! What would you guys do in this case?
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Unspoken Demise Banned Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: >9,000	There needs to be applecare for women. Get a refurb. It my have a few scratches, but it will treat you nicely.
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jessica. macrumors Nehalem Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Wrong girl from the right side of the tracks	Leave her. She sounds crazy and if you marry her and stick with her forever then just wait until she hits middle age.
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NoSmokingBandit macrumors 68000 Join Date: Apr 2008	It sounds to me like you care more about your macbook than your relationship anyway, so why bother trying to work it out? It also sounds like she is being a bitch, so i would get rid of her anyway. It sounds like neither of you really care about each other very much.
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nrivas macrumors member Join Date: Aug 2009	What is she doing out of the kitchen anyways?
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Menge macrumors 6502 Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Brazil	Jeeesus, man! I'd have dropped her LONG ago O_o __________________ Menge - 2011 2.3GHz 13" MBP - 16GB iPhone 4 - 32GB iPad WiFi+4G - 8GB iPod Nano - AEBS
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melissa23 macrumors member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Cheshire	First thing to do is talk to her! Tell her what you're telling us. Does she know that those other incidents were unacceptable? Cos, really, they were- people in healthy relationships don't act like that! I heard a quote once, which springs to mind- 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them.' I had an ex-boyfriend who hit me and told me I deserved it. I didn't, but that was all I knew as he was my first boyfriend. He wasn't sorry- that was who he was, and he showed me that in his actions. Sidenote: I think after 5 years you should know her well enough be able to pick your gfs present on your own, but that's another matter. Incidentally- what was in the text?
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AAPLaday Guest Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Manchester UK	Jeez so number 1 she keys your car, number 2 she throws your iPhone and number 3 she throws it at your macbook pro!!!! Id dump her and tell her its cause she gained weight lol
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