17years old and all the hot girls fancy me. So why am I mad? Because Im in my late 20s(very late 20s, so late they begin with a 3) and Im married with kids. I keep meeting girls I knew from school, college etc. when I was in my teens and early 20s and get talking about the past etc. only to have them come out with stuff like Oh I really fancied you back then. It pisses me off cause I know how unhappy I was at that age with being single, although when I say this everyone who knew me says I was, am and always have been outwardly very happy. In the last couple of years Ive spoken with, or my friends have and relayed the stories to me, at least 7 old friends who wanted to be more than just friends. Yesterday it was a girl, who I fancied back then too, who went out with my friend so she could spend time with me. Of course I never made the move she was waiting for because she was with my friend. After a few weeks she dumped him but I still didn't make any move 'cause that would've hurt my friend at the time. Why didnt they tell me/ask me out then? And even more annoying why did some of the ones I asked out then turn me down? Apparently it would seem my friends got all the action cause they drank while I didnt and that meant that they could blame any embarrassing encounters on the booze the next day when things didnt work out. [/rant] The point of this thread is to advise our younger members who are desperately trying to start relationships that, if you like someone TELL THEM. Whats the worst that could happen? You might want to consider drinking within reason too, the hot chicks love it!