jared_kipe said:
In my opinion, Adium's interface is... less than elegant. I absolutely adore the bubble windows that come from the opposing sides of the screen, makes it way easy to instantly see who said what. I'm sure most of you know how to do this, but if you go up to the preferences in iChat, on the General tab, if you check the box that says "show status in menue bar" then a little voice bubble will suddenly appear in the upper right. You can now close your buddy list, because you can do all your stuff from right there. This also means, that (barring from being open) you have one less icon on the dock.
First off, if you don't like Adium's message view go to
http://www.adiumxtras.com and you can download tons of xtras including different message views, many of which include opposing contacts and several have bubbles like iChat's (if you are running 10.2 you are out of luck when it comes to message views).
Next, if you Ctrl+Click (or if you have a multiple button mouse right-click) on the dock icon you can get everything that is in the iChat Menu item. So barring wanting one less icon in your dock Adium can handle everything you have discribed.
As far as people talking about file transfers, Adium file transfers work well, they just aren't completely polished. If you open Applications/Utilities/Console.app you can see the progress of an Adium file transfer. This is something that does need work to be finished off but the Adium Developers are on it.
The biggest problem I have with this thread is the lack of information on Adium. Adium is a work in progress so if you don't have the most recent version (.61, .62 is due out tomorrow) then I suggest you download it first before taking sides. Also if you try out Adium and don't like it visit
http://www.adiumxtras.com and you can customize Adium all you want. Lastly if you try it out and have some kind of problem I suggest that you visit
http://www.funmac.com/forumdisplay.php?f=38 which is the official Adium forums, the developers check it several times a day and are always happy to help.