In a few more months, my wife and I will have been married for twenty years. I was wanting to suprise her with a special vacation to commemorate the occasion. However, going to Europe in 1990 to see the Dead is the only major traveling we have ever done, and all that was taken care of by the group we went with. We have been all over the country many times, but we have a RV that we take so I have never needed to make travel arrangements and such. I was wanting to take her to Maui, but I am having a hard time figuring out where to stay and what to do. I would go to a travel agent, but the only one close is a friend of my wife. I want this to be a total surprise so that means I am going to need to make all the arrangements online. However their is not too much good solid info available, just a bunch of advertising propaganda. So i need some advise from someone who has been there, I know the Macrumors crowd is an affluent bunch of folks, so hopefully someone could help an old hippy out. I am looking for a romantic vacation at a small secluded resort. Money is not a problem, but please don't tell me to stay at the frekin' Ritz. My wife and I would stick out like two hippies at the Ritz. A nice laid-back full service resort is what I am looking for. Rest assured, any help will be greatly appreciated.