When I start & send an email from my iMac through apple mail, it doesn't show up in my gmail account (or on my iphone). If I start & send mail through gmail, it shows up fine in apple mail. Once I send from apple mail, friend's replies also do not show up in gmail. I've read a lot of threads of the reverse happening...can't find an answer to this. Been changing the apple mail preferences per gmail's recommendation, but no go. It used to work fine -until I got an iphone. Don't know why this would change things. Any help?