Ok, here's the dealio: My relationship with my (ex-)gf ended 8 weeks ago, and over the past 2.5 weeks, I have been very interested in another girl. I think we're even a better match than my ex-gf and I. We have the same "sense." She's kind, good at "life/living" (if you know what I mean), spontaneous, open-minded, smart, school smart, good with people, gorgeous, very sweet, kind, bubbly, perfect. I'm 99.7% sure she fancies me as well. However, since one of the (2 or 3) reasons my relationship with my ex-gf ended is because of distance (she had to move back home.....a 10 hour flight away), I don't want an identical situation with this new girl 8 months from now when she leaves as well. This girl has also been in a long distance relationship, and it was very tough. She must go back to her home Uni in July. Today, she was talking about how to become a resident here, which is what I intend to do as well. I told her that I hope she finds a way to become a resident here, because if she did and was still single, I'd love to ask her out then. But I told her that after only 2 months of being single, I can't start a relationship right now that we both know will end up being long distance. She understands how I feel and agrees with me. What do I get this girl as an Xmas present? Do I just buy her a regular gift, or something more special? I don't want to get her a "gf" type of present, but I don't want to give her a "close friend" present. After what we just discussed today, I'm not going to Swarovski or Tiffany's and buying her a present that's way over the top, y'know? I want to get her something special (a bit "boyfriend-ish"), but not completely "boyfriend-ish." Or maybe I could just get her a CD set I know she would love to own, and then get her a card with a special message in it? That's my lame-ass idea right now. Any suggestions?