They say on the site that you either need to call or email to order, so the process is probably already underway. Keep in mind that this company is probably relatively small and you may not get a reply for a day or two - it may be better to call (if it's a cheap call for you).
Most low-end discrete graphics cards will be better then the GMA950, even though they are fairly cheap. They support more hardware acceleration - the cpu has to do less work. You'd also be freeing up ram set aside by the onboard graphics, so you may notice a speed benefit there. Using a RAID card will also prove that this method of expansion works, and will open the door to more possibilities. Keep in mind, though, that you're putting a couple of hundred down on a theory. I give no guarantees that this will work. Although everything suggests that it will work, at least in windows, I have no proof. You are truly a pioneer.
Whatever your choice, good luck!