Ok this is embarassing for me but I have some serious holes in my knowledge on how iTunes actually works after resisting it for years. I prefer a more "winamp" style of music management... but now that i have an Apple TV i am stuck using itunes. So - I don't want itunes managing my files as that just makes a mess of all my mp3s. However I would like it to "refresh" a bit easier. Is there a way I don't have to drop files into itunes manually or is this a non-starter? I have set my library location manually - lets say it's just called Video. If i drop a video from my phone into that folder, for example, do i still have to drop the file into iTunes or will it refresh that folder on its own? Also - when i drop a file into itunes is it making a copy of that file in a library folder somewhere? (obviously it's copying it if i drop a file from external media like my phone, but if i drop in a file from, say for example, the desktop folder is it making a copy? thanks!