I am taking a survey. So here is the deal 1. Do you have many friends of the oppsite sex? 2. Of these friends, are they mostly exes or potentials? Or are they something else entireley? 3. How often do you go out with these friends? 4. What do you do with them, when you do hang out with them? Ok that's it. but here is the real question, can men and women be friends. Personally I have a pretty strange situtation, the guy friends I have typically become close to are gay or not my type. Guy friends who might have crossed into the "potential" side never last very long. And now I have an old friend on the "potential" side. When we met we went to the same parties and so on. These days he wants to "hang out." But I ask myself, who "hangs out" with their guy friends (of course or vice versa) Thanks for your thoughts.