I used to have a pearl white bb bold which looked amazing. Switched over to iphone 4 and then 5 both of which were black. Decided to switch up with iphone 6+ and went with the white/gold. No regrets at all. I'm not someone who finds the white distracting and I don't place gender on anything especially something as silly as colors. whatever you think looks good, go for it. Forget stereotyping.