Girls..

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  1. MacAztec, Sep 3, 2005
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  2. iMatt mini macrumors 6502

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    It seems you like girl one better, you wrote much more describing her. ;)
     
  3. clayj macrumors 604

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    Send one of them my way.

    No, seriously, whichever one you said you'd hang out with first is the one you should hang out with. Once you make a commitment, you keep it. If you haven't said anything to either one of them yet, you need to decide which one you'd rather spend time with; say yes to them; and then let the other one down easy, in such a way that future hanging out is still possible.

    But at some point, you will probably need to decide which one you want to spend the bulk of your attention on.

    Of course, I'm assuming that these two don't know each other; if they do, you'll have to make your decision more quickly, because if they BOTH find out that you're dating/hanging out with both of them, you could lose both of them.
     
  4. DeSnousa macrumors 68000

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    Sounds like you are trying to come up with excuses for girl 2, you know where your heart lies *cough* girl 2 you said it, she sweet, nice and cute.

    So what happened in the 3 hours in the room alone ;)
     
  5. AaronHeth macrumors member

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    I agree that you seem to have talked more about girl 1, so go with her. In the end, although it sounds cliche, personality is everything. Although maybe I'm bitter since I've recently gone through a pretty heart-breaking breakup.

    You're lucky, you have two oppurtunities right now. :)

    The best thing to do is judge how fast you get bored. If you can talk to someone for hours a day, day after day, stick with them.
     
  6. Lacero macrumors 604

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    If you're serious about both of them, take a look at their moms. That should help you decide the right girl.
     
  7. doucy2 macrumors 65816

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    whata pimp
    yea i was wondering about the 2hours also
    send me some pics of the 2 girls then ill tell ya which one
     
  8. iMatt mini macrumors 6502

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    Haha, that's so shallow. :p
     
  9. doucy2 macrumors 65816

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    yea
    ohh well
    i got all the ladies i think??

    hey just noticed you started using mac on my b-day lol cool
     
  10. ham_man macrumors 68020

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    That was what I had been thinking...:eek:

    Judging from what you wrote, I would go with girl 1...
     
  11. neocell macrumors 65816

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    Think of the worst situation you could get into and then think which one you'd want with you at that time. Everyone gets old and ugly at some point, so make sure you like what's inside.
     
  12. MattG macrumors 68040

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    Not going to give any advice, just want to say I wish I had your problem :)
     
  13. Abstract macrumors Penryn

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    Unlike the others here, I can't tell who you like more. Sorry.

    However, I will give you advice based on a guess. :p Cool?

    So........I think you like girl 2 more, but girl 1 has cool sh*t. You do honestly think she's nice, but she has lots of great stuff, and that's the point. It's not a bad thing to like someone partly because of that reason. You may feel a bit guilty, but does seem to be human nature.

    Here's what you do: If girl 1s father owns the Chicago Bulls or any team that sucks, dump girl 1. :p If you think you naturally interact better with girl 2, dump girl 1. If this is just a college fling that will last less than a year no matter which girl you date, then dump girl 2 because she has less s***.

    If one is a Mac user, date her. ;)
     
  14. yoda13 macrumors 65816

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    me too.....my mom once told me never to get involved for money, but be sure to get involved where money is...or something like that.... ;)
     
  15. mad jew Moderator emeritus

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    That's really what it should all come down to.
     
  16. jamdr macrumors 6502a

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    Well, I could imagine a worse predicament you could be in, but here's my advice:

    Ask yourself where you are in your life. If you are a freshman or sophomore in high school and are looking for a long-term relationship for the next year or two, go with girl #1 because it sounds like you are more interested in her in a high-school relationship kind of way (whatever that means). If you are senior in high school and will be graduating soon and just want some action, go with the more fun/carefree/shallow girl. If you are in college and just want to hook up, go with whoever is hotter. If you are in college and you want to give a serious, mature, long-term relationship a try, don't make a decision right now. Hang out with both of them some more and get to know them better over the next month or so. Do not let one of them become "friends with benefits". Talk to them about things that are important to you and find out what's important to them. Then you will be in a better position to know which one you want to date--but I suspect it might be girl #2 (although it's hard to tell from just a short forum post). Anyway, good luck and let us know what happens :)
     
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    "Sorry baby, but you know where my loyalties lie."

    *kisses the Mac*
     
  18. MacAztec, Sep 3, 2005
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    Well, I am happy right now. Girl 2 called me and said her mom took her keys away because she went home so late last night (haha). So, Girl 1 and I will be chillin. We will see how it goes.
     
  19. MacAztec, Sep 3, 2005
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    Mate i would make up your mind shortly as:

    1) Its not fair on either one of them.
    2) They will find out eventually and you'll have none.
     
  21. Abstract macrumors Penryn

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    We know you want girl 1 because of her goodies. Just make the choice and be done with it!

    And don't waste more time and lose them both.
     
  22. ham_man macrumors 68020

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    He owns the Phoenix Suns? That's awesome...
     
  23. iMatt mini macrumors 6502

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    Her dad owns Phoenix Suns. :)
    Edit: ahh beat me to it!
    Edit 2: Her last name is Sarver and she's Jewish? :cool:
     
  24. mad jew Moderator emeritus

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    Yeah, done that once and it's not cool. Went from thinking I'm the coolest kid on the block to feeling like an absolute wanker. :(
     
  25. mad jew Moderator emeritus

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    Bet she's not mad though!
     

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