Ok, got it. Here's how you can get his NetBIOS name from his IP address...it's complicated though.
First, if you send him a message, you will probably want him to be able to send you back one, so get this app:
http://www.versiontracker.com/dyn/moreinfo/macosx/21240
Now we're ready to get his NetBIOS name:
1) Go here:
http://www.inetcat.org/software/nbtscan.html and click at the top "Download NBTScan Sources"
2) When the source code has downloaded and expanded open up the terminal and put in "cd", space, then drag the source code folder into the window. The path name to the folder should appear after "cd". Hit return.
3) Now, in the same terminal window type "./configure" and hit return. Wait for it to finish scrolling all the text and status
4) When the scrolling has finished, type "make" and hit return
5) when that finishes scrolling type "sudo make install", at which point it will do one of two things:
a) If you have never done a "sudo" terminal command before, it will ask you if your system admin has had a talk with you (say yes) and ask for your admin password. When you type the letters won't show up, but it will take in what you type.
b) It will ask you for the admin password, put it in. Remember - when you type the letters won't show up, but it will register.
After putting in all the passwords that it asks for (if more than one), hit return.
6) You've compiled and installed the app, now to run it.
7) In the terminal, type "/usr/local/bin/nbtscan", space, then the hacker's IP address, then hit return
8) after a brief delay it should give you a read out containing his NetBIOS name.
There you go, I hope this helps!