Congrats. Did you buy her gifts before marrying?
No, nothing beyond a modest birthday present...
Congrats. Did you buy her gifts before marrying?
What's odder is that you want to emulate the sugar daddy.
BL.
No, nothing beyond a modest birthday present...
Yes minus her potentially falling in love. That just freaks me out because that's not what a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship is about.
Did you have a good job?
Kind of sounds like you are wanting a prostitute.
Yeah, worked it until retirement. Have a great retirement too..
I guess...
But a sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship isn't supposed to have love in the equation...
You must have had a REALLY good job to be retired at 55...
Oh it does... Love of sex & love of money... When a real relationship develops love just happens... Even between enemies at times.
Yes minus her potentially falling in love. That just freaks me out because that's not what a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship is about.
Interesting that not once it gets mentioned that a sugar daddy might fall in love... I'm pretty sure that it goes both ways.
This is a business relationship between two people. And, like with all business relationships, there is a possibility that either party develops emotional ties, however absurd it may sound. And any good business relationship should have a contract... Regardless of how well-written the contract is, however, you can only guarantee that neither party fall in love (or whatever you want to call it) if both parties are incapable of emotions. There are enough of those types out there. Shouldn't be hard to find a match.
Interesting that not once it gets mentioned that a sugar daddy might fall in love... I'm pretty sure that it goes both ways.
This is a business relationship between two people. And, like with all business relationships, there is a possibility that either party develops emotional ties, however absurd it may sound. And any good business relationship should have a contract... Regardless of how well-written the contract is, however, you can only guarantee that neither party fall in love (or whatever you want to call it) if both parties are incapable of emotions. There are enough of those types out there. Shouldn't be hard to find a match.
this really shows the type of person you are trying to be: callous and very shallow. But by all means, continue to do so, as everyone here will see exactly what qualifications in a man they want to AVOID.
BL.
I think it just depends on who falls in love with who if anyone falls in love at all.
Like I said the first time I sense that, "you want what you can't have" plays a huge role.
For a girl with a 35 year old sugar daddy, you've got everything but his love.
That's going to drive her insane.
For a 60 year old sugar daddy you've got everything she has to offer except her heart. So that's going to drive him insane possibly.
Not sure about that. Don't confuse dependency with love.
I'm wondering though... what could motivate a thirty-something year old guy to want to enter a sugar daddy/sugar babe relationship in a time where there are a ton of women who are completely fine with having a purely sexual relationship to begin with? What's the difference?
I understand when a 70 year-old man who has a thing for twenty- or thirty-somethings will have difficulty finding that someone easily. But if a thirty-something man does that, then I do have to wonder why he has to pay someone. Like I said, there are plenty of women who don't care for a love relationship at all. I can only assume there's something else at play...
I don't there are that many very attractive women looking for a purely sexual relationship.
Well, not with you at any rate ...
Yep, life is pretty simple when you reduce it to a set of impersonal transactions.
I can't believe you think playing with girls' hearts is OK. Shame on you.
I'm not sure you're right about that. I don't there are that many very attractive women looking for a purely sexual relationship.
Maybe unattractive but certainly not the kind a rich man would want.
What makes you think that? Now I'm intrigued. Why do you think that there aren't many women who are attractive and not interested in a love relationship? There is absolutely no conceivable correlation between the desire of wanting a love relationship and good looks. The world is full of beautiful superficial people who desire superficial relationships. Today more than ever.
Unless, of course, the thirty-something year old guy has nothing else going for him than money, meaning the guy who desires a highly attractive super young woman is generally undesirable in every which way. An attractive young(ish) rich guy won't have problems finding an attractive woman who isn't interested in anything more than a sexual relationship. Like I said, an attractive rich guy... And this doesn't mean he has to be incredibly handsome. He just needs to have something going for him other than money. If all that fails, then that's the scenario where I can imagine that money is the last resort, then he can buy a woman (or man) and pay for what he wants.