in ichat, i have one account, and thats AIM, its really confusing, i have three sections, buddies, recent, and offline, forget the recent, im guessing all of the following: if a buddy is in the offline list, he is offline if the buddy is on the buddies list with a green dot next to him, he is online if a buddy has a yellow dot next to him, he is idle if the buddy has the radio signals like the airport symbol next to him, he is away now, does everything ive stated above true?? please correct me if im wrong I have no idea what does it mean to have the following: what does it mean if you have a red dot next to the buddy's name in the buddies list? and what does it mean if you have a grey dot next to the buddy's name in the buddies list? im very confusedcan someone help me on this?? can you tell me about the difference between the red and grey dot? thanx a lot!!!!!!