After I had asked her parents, I told her in advance we were attending a company function at the Petroleum Club in Fort Worth. But really, I had reserved a private dinner suite that overlooked the city and had a table set for two in that cozy room.
So, when we arrived and turned the corner to go into what she thought was a ballroom, she saw a
small room with glass on all sides, the city all lit up, and a table for two with candles, etc., etc. So, then I asked her, she said "Yes", and we had a wonderful dinner.
Only the surprise wasn't over. Right before dessert, we heard a knock on the door. Little did she know that I had invited our families (who had become good friends by this time) to come and join us for dessert to share in the celebration. It was wonderful, and she was very surprised. It was the perfect night, at the perfect place, with the perfect person. This was in March of 1999, and we were both 23 years old and had been dating for 3 years.
This September, we will have been married 8 years.